I’m not what you’d call…cinematic-ally adventurous. Nothing too violent, but if it’s historical (Narcos, Vikings, war movies,) I’ll watch it. I hate romance movies and even worse romantic comedies. That genre feels like it’s made entirely for people who don’t like thinking.
I don’t like anything that’s going to make me cry or feel emotions deeply. I already do too much of that in my time as it stands. And for fuck’s sake, I will never watch a movie of ANY type with my parents again. The number of times we’ve been surprised by a random sex scene that I had to endure watching in their company has created more trauma than can even scratch the surface in my therapy sessions. Those moments will not burn me ever again.
No – I like films which transport me to places. I’m incredibly appreciative of a director and writer who can capture an entire era, destination, and zeitgeist in words and film. That type of genius is not lost on me. Therefore, when I saw The Grand Budapest Hotel, for once in a handful of times in my life, I fell in love.
The film captured the magical, whimsical – yet hearty and stern essence of Budapest – if not central Europe entirely. Thus, a new item crept onto my bucket list WAY before the hype over Budapest took off. Despite my desire to visit simmering long before the Buda-movement, I was only able to get around to going last summer (2018.)
I was on the hunt for the Budapest of my dreams, the Budapest of one of my favorite films. That Budapest. Where I imagined myself eating pastries and goulash, riding the funicular, lounging in the baths which haven’t changed since the World Wars, and strolling around art museums. I wanted quirky and I wanted artsy. I wanted historical. But would I get it?
Well, to answer that, here’s a photograph from day one.
Some people can jump right into the vibe of a city – I can’t. I am always thrilled the first day, but also terrifyingly aware that I am a small fish in a big pond. In every aspect of my life, it’s usually the opposite, well not when visiting a new destination, cities in particular. In this case, as my readers will know, my type-A, overthinking, over-anticipating mind got the best of me. My plan involved seeing the version of Budapest I had loved from a fictional film instead of seeing Budapest for what it was – a city which wound up being even better than I hoped once I let it show me who it was instead of telling it what I wanted it to be.
Day One Disaster:
My best friend and I give each other a “cranky day.” We each have one day to be cranky, annoyed, frustrated, tired, but that is it. Today was my day. I’ll chalk some of this up to the heatwave that was sweeping central Europe, some up to my impending period, but mostly, my aforementioned impossible expectations.
Much like an ungrateful spouse or parent, I wanted my version of Budapest, and while I enjoyed what I saw, it didn’t match the movie in my mind. Oh yeah, and all of this happened:
Another city, another day of having no idea how its public transportation works. Worse – we’d be using precious time trying to understand it. Due to the heatwave that blasted through central Europe, sweat drenched us before accomplishing anything for the day. To make matters worse, we functioned on the littlest bit of sleep imaginable.
When we finally DID figure the tram out, we took it in the opposite direction of where we intended to go. We wanted to take it to see the highly-rated Buda castle, and eventually, we did make it there. That is only to find out that the castle is closed on Monday. This was after waiting ridiculously long to ride the funicular to the castle. I threw myself into the grass and declared my utter frustration before re-grouping and taking some selfies, selfies which underscore that I should never be considered petite.
Rescued by Frida
The trek was not a total waste, as the universe aligned to bring me something up my alley, an exhibit on Frida Khalo. Frida and I are kindred spirits I like to think. We both, at times, walk the line between creative genius and utterly insane. And we both feel things deeply and gravitate to chaos and madness. We both see ourselves in everything we produce, creatively and otherwise. And we both don’t wax our eyebrows ever. Amanda is not such a huge fan of Frida, but patiently waited on the bench while I read every little description of each of her works and uttered, “oh wow” after each one.
Fisherman’s Bastion
After, we decided to head over to Fisherman’s Bastion. A mecca for selfies and photograph taking with little else to do, as I saw it anyway. It was beautiful, picturesque, but overall a tic on an Instagram- driven to-do list.
While we were able to snap some pretty decent photos, let’s be real. It was a bajillion degrees out, and besides taking photos, the only other option is to look out over the water and stare, wishing it submerged you. It was getting to be that time, booze o’clock, when I remembered the underground wine labyrinth I heard about from my friend.
We agreed that would hit the spot and as I googled the location, I could not believe my luck, the place was within walking distance! We walked in the heat searching feverishly, yearning for the cool darkness of a wine cave and the lighthearted conversation and relaxation that polishing off a bottle of vino brings.
Our GPS told us we had arrived, but the cave was nowhere to be found. We wandered up and down the street for a solid 45 minutes before realizing the cave was inside of a hotel. After searching the entire hotel for an additional 45 minutes, we learned that the wine cave already closed for the season. Enter, two incredibly frustrated, annoyed, and worst of all, sober travelers.
Crossing the Bridge
We headed back to the hotel and decided to “nap it out.” We agreed that we would wake up refreshed and laugh about all of this over a delicious Hungarian dinner and cold drinks.
Except later on that night, everything closed before we searched. We couldn’t find a single place near us to enjoy dinner. If you know me, you know I deal with frustration and disappointment extremely well. Except I’m obviously fucking kidding. I’m a miserable beast when faced with even the slightest, minor, inconvenience or deviation from my plans or dreams. And as you can see, this was way more than a minor deviation. We’re talking about not eating dinner for fuck’s sake!
Then, like a shining beacon of hope, the bridge shone and stood out. We decided to head that-a-way. On reaching the bridge, tons of young people were hanging out ON the bridge itself. It looked edgy, it looked fun, it looked like I’d never haul my ass up there as per my complete lack of arm strength. That is where my love affair with Budapest begins.
Young people apparently hang out on the bridge while drinking, chatting, and just relaxing as traffic whizzes by. A group of women we met halfway over suggested crossing entirely. There, we would find a wealth of restaurants and bars. Before departing in search of sustenance, I vowed I would return and I would too chill upon the bridge at some point.
Budapest Delivers.
Finally. Budapest delivered. We enjoyed one of my most memorable meals to date – the infamous chicken paprikash. A perfectly cooked piece of chicken smothered in a creamy paprika sauce and served with Hungarian gnocchi. As if that weren’t enough, they serve a cream sauce on top to even out the spice. This definitely makes its way into the top five meals I’ve ever had while traveling—sheer perfection.
New York Palace Cafe – The Ultimate in Budapest Vibes
New York Cafe brings a bunch of bougie to Budapest. Frequented in days long ago by writers both well known and never known, the cafe as of 2006 has been fully restored to its original splendor. Some call it “the most beautiful cafe in the world” and I’d be hard-pressed to find a counter-argument.
It’s easy to have an incredible experience here, soaking in the decadence and opulence of a Budapest stuck in time. A string quartet serenades diners as they sip coffee, enjoy a delicious lunch, and of course, nosh on renowned pastries and cakes. Despite the oppressive heat outside, we ordered Hungarian goulash (no better place to try it!). After, we finished with an assortment of desserts to satisfy the devil which was that of my impending menstruation.
Unique Nightlife.
Budapest’s nightlife scene is insane, varied, and unique. To start, the ruin bars/pubs are exclusive to Budapest and a “must hit” because of that feature. Ruin pubs/bars are so-called due to their appearance.
They are usually some form of shanty with random decor and lawn ornaments. As such, the decor gives it a look of an elevated trailer park meets garage sale, yet aesthetically somehow, this works marvelously as each one gives an outdoor art museum vibe. We didn’t want to wait in line for hours, so we went to any random one instead of the most popular. We had several beers while musing over how good life could be. The beer was cold, the people were interesting, the decor was unique. What wasn’t to love?
With every intention of heading home afterwards, we stopped in a more typical pub after for “one last beer of the night.” Sitting next to a window that opened up to the street, we met a group of travelers (who themselves had just met) from Scotland and Ireland. The mixed group were standing on the street and talking loudly, playfully arguing, and were full of good spirits. Friendly and fun, they suggested coming with them to a nightclub, and so we did.
Nightclub Adventure.
Woah. Instant-Fogas was PACKED. Laying in a tin can with sardines would have felt more spacious. One of our new Scottish friends was able to get us in the door quickly, bypassing the huge line entirely, where we immediately proceeded to the nearest bar. In fact, this night club mega club has several bars, all themed. All difficult to get to because again…PACKED. Where there’s a will there’s a way. With patience, flirtation, and persistence, we always managed to get a drink pretty quickly.
Due to the spontaneity that drinking a lot brings, Amanda and I found a bar, ordered some red-bull and vodkas, and found our way onto the dance floor practicing our coolest (not cool) new moves. The crowd definitely felt like it had a college/just graduated college vibe and so we kept each other entertained and tuned out all the children around us out. Dropping it low on the dance floor where no one knew my name, laughing as loudly as I wanted, and drinking a ton was freeing
Possibly one of the greatest moments was getting asked to dance and being hit on by someone who had to be no older than 21. When I flashed my wedding ring at him, he stumbled back as though shocked. “You’re married and everything? That’s crazy.”
Yeah, bro, trust me, I know. I sent him on his way and realized that the friends who were our own age and older from Ireland and Scotland, well, we’d probably never see again. Amanda and I enjoyed each other’s company and complete ridiculous-ness as we continued to tear up the dance floor, sip red-bull and vodkas, and disappoint an unusually high number of frat bros that we were in fact married and off the market.
Upon leaving the club sometime in the early morning, we passed a restaurant that serves fried chicken in a waffle cone. Genius. Alas, it already closed, and so I practiced my incredible dance moves right there in front of the storefront for no apparent reason at all.
Hotel Gellert. Living My Version of Budapest.
At this point, I should mention that we were staying at the famed Hotel Gellert and Baths. It was truly, the closest imaginable place to the hotel in my favorite movie. I found it—a scene out of the Budapest of my dreams. I had succeeded in finding Budapest..
Old worldly and yet refined, Hotel Gellert stands luxuriously and is in itself a sight to behold. Although it lacked air conditioning, it was a welcomed stay after roughing it in hostels in the cities prior. There is no greater amenity than a private bathroom.
Budapest Baths
Spending a day at the “baths” in Budapest is an important part of experiencing local culture and the uniqueness of the city. The day after our evening of dancing til dawn, we decided to relax in the Gellert baths located within the hotel. To start, we ventured outside and cooled off in the giant pool. Luckily, every hour the giant pool becomes a wave pool and you get to participate in trying not to drown and the collective whooping of, “WoooAAAhhhh” that people from all places and backgrounds all manage to scream unanimously.
When the waves were at their highest, it literally looked like a scene out of the Titanic. A small girl clinging to the side of the pool was ripped out to sea (her dad laughed), strangers were thrown about and smashed into each other, people tumbled up on “shore.” I’ve never laughed so hard in my life. I’d worked my abs out enough from giggling and we bathed in the outdoor hot tubs.
After the fun of watching humanity in peril at the wave pool, we “sampled” each and every bath indoors. The indoor baths look exactly as though they could easily fit right into The Grand Budapest hotel. The baths have done a great job of preserving the beautiful look of antiquity made up from the tile and stonework. It feels exactly as though one has been transported to another era, perhaps the second World War.
Wine River Cruise
Budapest is known for its wine and for its cruises on the Danube river, which showcase the splendor of its architecture. Why not combine both?
Included in our adventure was a live string instrument music performance, some snacks, and 8-10 tastings (pretty much full glasses) of wine. Luckily, we found seats with the most incredible group of fun-loving travelers ever who became our friends for the night.
We had entirely too much fun getting to know each other, feeling good from the wine, singing, dancing, and sneaking glasses of champagne from the floor above us. The sites were a wonder to see from the boat, and we were able to get some memorable photographs.
Our tickets included transportation back to our hotel, which we said “hell no” to and asked the driver to drop us off at another location. Two of our new friends wanted to come, but didn’t pay for round trip transportation. So, in solidarity, we each took a piece of our yellow wrist band (which indicates we paid for transport) and made two full-size bracelets for our friends to board the van with us to…
Street Food Karavan
I’m not a food truck fanatic. I hate standing and eating. Eating is synonymous with relaxation and therefore you should do it sitting. HOWEVER, run, don’t walk to Street Food Karavan. Seemingly endless amount of choices of food trucks serving many of the Hungarian treats on our “eat it list” including:
Langos – deep-fried dough with cheese, sour cream, and an endless possibility of choices of toppings on top, probably much bigger than your head (not mine, I have the biggest one in the known universe)
Kolbice – The ULTIMATE drunk or comfort snack. I’m rolling my eyes in this pic because I didn’t want to stop eating it to take the picture. A bread cone filled with mini sausages or hot dogs topped with roasted onion and tons of cheese sauce. This is not a drill …it’s everything girls like me dream about.
I have no idea how, but we met a random girl who invited us back to her hostel to use the toilet (I think she even came into the bathroom with me???) All I DO remember is that she was lovely, had a lot of spunk, and that she had a HUGE hostel, like Vegas-style huge. I never saw her again after that, but I’m really grateful to her hospitality.
The Night Lingers On
Prior to arriving, our new friends and us stopped at a late-night convenience store for more snacks and even more drinks. Shopping in local small stores and supermarkets is a great way to learn about a culture. It’s interesting to see the products sold, try new things, and gawk at the prices. I believe I bought two bottles of cider and wine and some pretzels.
Our new friends suggested Erzsebet Square. I will never…NEVER forget sitting with our feet in the water on the edge of the giant pool, which overlooks the Budapest eye. We shared snacks, jokes, and personal stories about our lives back home as though we were lifetime friends. One of the guys and I jumped into the pool (ankle deep water) and raced from one end to the other. We thought it was hysterical. The police guarding the area did not feel the same way. (We got off with a warning; naturally, I’m pretty sure I did it again anyway…damn heatwave)
Wrapping up the night in proper fashion, what better way to say goodbye to such an amazing city other than drinking champagne and sitting on the bridge overlooking the gorgeous view in our pajamas? We hung out for hours, until the early hours of the morning.
A little over 48 hours was up, and it was time to move onto Berlin. I wish so desperately that we stayed longer as Budapest is one of my favorite places in the world to have visited.
Iced Coffee Always.
I have to give a shout-out to this adorable breakfast and coffee spot named My Little Melbourne. Not only for the epic and random street fight I witnessed on the way there at 8:00 in the morning, but because their iced latte was literally perfection. Sweet (not too much so), creamy, and energizing. It was quite possibly, the perfect iced coffee!
Budapest Found
I learned that Rome wasn’t conquered in an instant…so neither would Budapest. I was so desperate for the city to stand at attention and reveal itself to me from the moment I landed, and I had to accept that the city is not that way. Most places outside of London and New York City are not that way.
The treasures are within and take some time to discover, but once I found them, I finally found the Budapest of my dreams. Budapest was not an instantaneous love for me, but it became a genuine, deep love nonetheless. It is a work of beautiful sculpture from days gone by. In so many ways, it does embody the opulence of the past while surprisingly modern in areas.
It doesn’t serve me to have a grand expectation of what a city will “be like.” Rather, I would like to work on visiting a new place and enjoying it for what it truly is. Our next stop is Montreal and Quebec City. As much as images of maple syrup shacks, moose, and French-speaking folks carrying baguettes laden my mind… I’ll reserve my expectations.
I had a much more sedate visit to Budapest and I loved it, too. It’s a versatile city. Sorry you missed the castle, though.
ReplyWhat a fun and wonderful post on Budapest! I’ve never seen the movie the Grand Budapest Hotel but I’m going to watch it now! I’ll keep this post handy for when I get to go one day! 😁
Well, I think you've added Budapest to my bucket list. Not a party person so probably wouldn't get much out of night clubs and such, but the pictures and descriptions of the food made me super hungry while reading!
ReplySo glad I could help! Thank you SO much for taking the time out to read, made my day! <3
Loved how realistic this is! Very excited for my upcoming trip now to Budapest :)
ReplySo glad you enjoyed! Thank you for reading, means so much to me! <3
Budapest just keeps climbing higher on my list of cities to visit! The food looks amazing! Glad you found the city you were looking for!
ReplyYou have so much awesome info here.. I'm hoping to visit Budapest soon so this was a great read for me! My favorite part was honestly that you and your friend allow each other a cranky day. It's so unrealistic to expect yourself or your travel buddy to be happy and positive 24/7. I bet lots of fights could be saved if more people did this. I know I will be from now on. :)
ReplyThis is great! It looks like it turned out to be a great trip after all. I love that you give each other a "grumpy day". I'm going to have to see if I can make that fly with my hubby. LOL!
ReplyBudapest has also been a part of our bucket list after we say the movie. I guess it would be fun to hang out on the bridge and drink. Whenever I visit a new place, I try to enjoy it as "local" and get a feel on how to live there. Thank you for sharing this wonderful post. You just awaken my deep desire to visit this beautiful place.
ReplyI’ve never been to Budapest, but I feel like I got a good sense of the vibe of the city from your post, and I am vibing it! I would def be one of those kids hanging out on the bridge lol. Have you been to Mexico City btw? Frida’s house is there and it’s a museum now that you can go tour - I feel like you would love that!
ReplyIt's totally on my bucket list! I might try to move in though LOL.
Heritage and baths and river cruises, you sure had the time of your life here. I have been wanting to get there myself but after this, I need to fast forward on the plans. Did you get to visit any of the underground crypts - that is something that is on my list.
ReplyI didn't, but I plan on going back so I will definitely hit them! Thanks for reading, Amy :-)
I loved Budapest for the first two days then I got a spectacular stomach bug and spend the last day confined to the dirty bathroom of my crappy Airbnb. I think I need to go back sans the stomach bug and explore it properly.
ReplyNOOOOO! I'm so sorry, stomach bugs are the worst especially when you can't even ride them out in comfortable lodging. Imodium forever. Hope you get to go back and enjoy! <3
Oh wow you had quite an adventure in Budapest!! I love the sound of the chicken paprikash, I need to look it up. I'm glad you had an amazing time meeting other travelers and having a fun night out too. Loved your photos documenting your travels, it makes me want to go back!
ReplyThanks, Lisa! Let me know if you come across a good recipe online or anything, I've been searching and searching! xoxo
Oh, I want to go to Budapest!! You had quite the adventure there and I love all of your pictures and descriptions! Thanks for reminding me to get Budapest to the top of my bucket list.
ReplyI love your honesty in this post!! I am so wanting to go to Budapest now!!! It looks like so much fun!!
ReplySo glad that you found the Budapest of your dreams! It looks wonderful! I love the idea of allowing one "cranky day!" :)
ReplyThis is a great honest article. I visited Budapest a few years ago (actually went to the same restaurant as you did). That's one thing that worries me about falling in love with a place from watching movies and then when you visit it, its not quite the same. But I'm so glad you enjoyed it overall. Budapest is a beautiful city.
ReplyEnjoyed thoroughly :) I love posts about "travel tales" much more than travel guides :)
ReplyI would be happy to have half as much fun as you seemed to have on your trip. You had me laughing from the first paragraph!
ReplyI'm glad that in the end you fell in love with Budapest - the real Budapest, as opposed to your expectation of the city. And I like that you wrote about those expectations versus the reality of traveling there - even the nitty gritty, like feeling grumpy over things just not working out (as so often happens in travel!). Happy that you made it to the bridge at the end after all, with a fresh, grounded perspective on Budapest. Thanks for sharing :)
ReplyI have wanted to visit Budapest for a very long, most importantly for the food and the wine, but it looks like a great city for architecture as well!
ReplyI was there on a business trip for two days. The first night I went to the restaurant corner and ate something very local, but I cannot remember what it was.I could only remember it was very busy, a typical night scene. But, it was a very cozy place and worth the visit. The second night I boarded on the Danube cruise and enjoyed the romantic illuminated river banks. I like this city very much.
ReplyWhen I visited Budapest, I struggled for the first day or so to also appreciate the city. Like you, I was exhausted (from the heat and just overtired) and just wanted to fall easily in love with the city without truly trying. I ended up falling in love with the city after sitting in the neighborhoods of Pest. I loved how intimate and local it felt. I definitely found that quirkiness that both of us were searching for. After that, I had a fantastic day of exploring the sites and even embarked on the same wine cruise that you did! I love your sense of adventure! I think we'd make great travel companions. Definitely want to visit Budapest ASAP to add to the numerous memories I've already made there!
ReplyQuite interesting on how a movie got you interested in a city and you went to see it for yourself. I've been to Budapest but I haven't seen the movie. But now, after reading your post, I'm intrigued. Have to check out the movie now. Oh yeah! That has happened to me in some places! I have a mental image and what I see there doesn't match and it is really frustrating. Somehow the funicular just didn't work when I went! And yup, we too had to cross that very bridge for dinner!
ReplyI won't managed a fleeting visit to Budapest on a stop over. So I really need to to back. That kolbice looks immense! I'll be looking out for those on my return.
ReplyI haven't been to Budapest yet, your post is quite amazing to read and have found it really interesting, Feeling like to visit there as soon as possible, thanks for the share, Cheers!!
ReplyBudapest looks like so much fun. Especially that wine river cruise. I am adding it to my list.
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